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Being two

June 23, 2012

My daughter has officially entered the Terrible Two one month shy of her second birthday, and not a day goes by without fighting epic battles of wills with her. She’s learning to assert her independence and testing the boundaries so much so that bathing / feeding / changing / sleeping has become struggles between me and her on a daily basis. She would choose what to wear and the colour of spoon to eat with. And if she decides to sit on her diaper-filled poop today, she is so going to.  She would not have you shampoo her hair if she doesn’t feel like getting it wet, and trust me, she if you so decide to get her out of bed to go out. She will lie in bed for as long as she wants, and any attempt to pry her away from her bolster and carrying her from the bed will result in a fit so hissy you’d rather go find a hole and bury yourself. When she has her tantrums, she can wail non-stop for more than half an hour and no amount of talking sense and cajoling can make her stop. I have videos to prove that she can cry and scream at the top of her lungs for that long.

And to make matters worse, she has night terrors. They started when she was about 14 months old. She has been sitting up and crying inconsolably at regular intervals nightly for a while now, usually about three to four times between 11pm and 5am. And the past week has been hell. She yelled the house down while in her semi-conscious state at least five times in the night. She had a viral fever the week before and I’m pretty sure it could have been the reason for the excessive partial night wakings.

So I have no respite, day and night.

This is Becks after three tantrums today. She refused to wear the pretty jumper I prepared for her and when I attempted to put it on, she kicked and fussed and shrieked. That was the first. When I finally decided that I was not willing to die on this hill in this battle and allowed her to choose what she wanted to wear, she chose her brother’s t-shirt. I said no, and wailing started all over again. That was the second. When she finally stopped, there were mucous and tears all over her face. I cleaned her up and made her drink some water. She refused to drink, and that started her third outburst. She was promptly sent to the naughty corner. When she finally calmed down, I allowed her to choose what she wanted to wear, with the exception of her brother’s clothes.

She wanted to be pink from head to toe.

I almost fainted.


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  • Reply Abby June 25, 2012 at 3:23 AM

    My 18-month is starting to throw tantrums too at home when she doesn’t get what she wants. I am having a taste of what terrible-2 looks alike. Take heart! Becks behavior is completely normal for a 2-year old, hope she will grow out of this phase soon

    • Reply Motherkao July 4, 2012 at 3:50 PM

      Abby, it’s tough, isn’t it? You hang in there too with the tantrums!

  • Reply DinoMama June 23, 2012 at 11:17 PM

    The girl has ATTITUDE and sense of fashion~ hehehe~

    I don’t have Terrible Two, how lucky you may think but wait… I have Terrible Kid! My nightmare starts from 1yr old till now where my monster is 6yrs old but its getting better when he turn 6 (I can finally have a sane mind n rest abit).
    Terrible Twos are horrible but thinking back I think I enjoy every moment of that hahaha~ I’m a crazy mum 😛 It is during these moments I mould my monster to be such a child today.

    Hang in there! Remember NOT to give in n be persistent. If needed give her some space and yet still control the situation FIRMLY. Then sit back and enjoy it, just like me hahaha~

    • Reply MotherKao June 25, 2012 at 3:28 PM

      You have so much positivity, DinoMama!I will try to enjoy this phase. 🙂

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